We're praying for you Bos. Both issues are awful.
There's some good guidance being shared.
Please heed:
There's some good guidance being shared.
Please heed:
John, don't hesitate to speak up if you need anything - groups like this one are strong, and can provide a great deal of support during tough times. Some of my best friends IRL, I've met on forums like this, and sometimes when you have a lot of fucked up shit going on, it really helps to be able to have people you can turn to - for advice, or to vent, or sort through your thoughts and ideas, or just get shitfaced drunk together. If nothing else, just being able to get your mind off of the stressful things for a short while can be a huge relief and make you better equipped to handle them. You gotta take care of yourself in order to take care of the issues at hand, and I'm sure there are plenty of people here who will say the same thing I'm saying here - pm me or post up here, either is fine, if there's ANYTHING I can do